Prejudge

Everyone wants to know the ending of a story or situation but they never want to understand the real story. It is so easy to prejudge someone looking at their current circumstances. When one is judged, it is always in a negative light. It's never, maybe this one mistake was a God honest mistake. It's …

I failed them…. Miserably

I was supposed to be the girl who didn’t make it. The one who was supposed to birth a child while in high school; following the family’s curse and rely on others for my own survival. I was the one who was supposed to never make it. I was the one who people cursed behind …

Are you his refuge?!

It is said to be your spouse's place of serenity. His or her direction for peace. Be that tranquility for him/her that you get when you listen to waterfalls. It is said for you be that perfect love song towards your spouse. You know that one that says something about always putting them first and …

Now is better than later…

I had an epiphany while watching a cancer commercial.... The commercial, to me, displayed although you're going through treatment you have someone who cares and after treatment you can enjoy life more...my instant thought was why wait until you have a terminal illness to enjoy whats already yours? A lot of us walk around bitter, …

Body Shame

Body shame is now an unfortunate main stream issue; especially for women. Society has brainwashed us into thinking we have to have a size 0 waist - 42in hip and a really big booty. It has us so brainwashed that women are rushing to the surgery tables and walking around with waist trainers barely breathing. There's …

#Happy Goals

Sometimes we become lost within our own thoughts and our life in general. We look up and we are not where we wanted to be by this time in our lives. Although these times are rough and hard to look at, even with a blindfold on, these are the times where we must consume gratitude. …

Pick Me

Growing up, as a child, we always wanted to be picked first to do something or to just be picked overall because it made us feel special. As we have that behavior, we innately want attention from everyone around us. We age and become adults and unfortunately, we still look for that attention. That behavior …