It’s ok to love yourself more than anyone else. Loving yourself is better than putting someone else first. You have to understand, accept and be willing to love your flaws in order to love yourself. You can lobe yourself more than you love your spouse or even your children. If you aren’t secure with yourself, how do you expect for others to be secure with you. So take the challenge and start putting you first. Love is an emotional feeling so allow yourself to be and feel emotional with you.